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		By: Nichole Bernier		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nichole Bernier]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2013 20:04:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4327&quot;&gt;jackiemallon&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, Jackie. I think it&#039;s partly the kid thing: You learn to grab work time whenever you can, and not fritter it. But it&#039;s also a tremendous relief to know whatever the results, it&#039;s being caught early. And we all know so many people who are terribly surprised with advanced diagnoses. I wouldn&#039;t say this under other circumstances, but it&#039;s nice to feel watched.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4327">jackiemallon</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, Jackie. I think it&#8217;s partly the kid thing: You learn to grab work time whenever you can, and not fritter it. But it&#8217;s also a tremendous relief to know whatever the results, it&#8217;s being caught early. And we all know so many people who are terribly surprised with advanced diagnoses. I wouldn&#8217;t say this under other circumstances, but it&#8217;s nice to feel watched.</p>
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		By: jackiemallon		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Aug 2013 20:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I admire the peace of mind you were able to reach in order to concentrate on writing while knowing such a terrifying telephone call looms later in the day. Is it a form of compartmentalizing? Woody Allen swears by it when he works. I wish you all the best with your health and your writing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I admire the peace of mind you were able to reach in order to concentrate on writing while knowing such a terrifying telephone call looms later in the day. Is it a form of compartmentalizing? Woody Allen swears by it when he works. I wish you all the best with your health and your writing.</p>
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		By: writersideup		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Aug 2013 14:57:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4287&quot;&gt;Nichole Bernier&lt;/a&gt;.

I just wanted to add that I actually discovered this years ago, that in keeping our eyes closed our imaginations can soar. As soon as we open our eyes, we&#039;re flooded with an overwhelming amount of visual info that begs for our attention. It was when, upon waking but still in that hypnopompic state that, if I consciously brought to mind an aspect of something I was writing that I hadn&#039;t yet figured out, the road to solving it was wide open. I LOVE that state and take advantage of it whenever I have the luxury.

Then, of course, when I&#039;m writing, and especially creating details in a fantasy world, I often close my eyes for this same reason---it&#039;s much easier to focus and concentrate, only I often nod off! lol

Donna]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4287">Nichole Bernier</a>.</p>
<p>I just wanted to add that I actually discovered this years ago, that in keeping our eyes closed our imaginations can soar. As soon as we open our eyes, we&#8217;re flooded with an overwhelming amount of visual info that begs for our attention. It was when, upon waking but still in that hypnopompic state that, if I consciously brought to mind an aspect of something I was writing that I hadn&#8217;t yet figured out, the road to solving it was wide open. I LOVE that state and take advantage of it whenever I have the luxury.</p>
<p>Then, of course, when I&#8217;m writing, and especially creating details in a fantasy world, I often close my eyes for this same reason&#8212;it&#8217;s much easier to focus and concentrate, only I often nod off! lol</p>
<p>Donna</p>
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		By: keyarafleece2013		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Aug 2013 03:08:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4314&quot;&gt;Nichole Bernier&lt;/a&gt;.

Haha! Well I do love kids!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4314">Nichole Bernier</a>.</p>
<p>Haha! Well I do love kids!</p>
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		By: Nichole Bernier		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nichole Bernier]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Aug 2013 11:23:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4321&quot;&gt;writersideup&lt;/a&gt;.

What a wonderful phrase — &quot;happy I&#039;m now aware of you.&quot; So poetic! Thank you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4321">writersideup</a>.</p>
<p>What a wonderful phrase — &#8220;happy I&#8217;m now aware of you.&#8221; So poetic! Thank you.</p>
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		By: freshly pressed &#124; catching days		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Aug 2013 13:44:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		By: f4ischer		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Aug 2013 16:04:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4316&quot;&gt;Nichole Bernier&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you! ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4316">Nichole Bernier</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you! </p>
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		By: writersideup		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Aug 2013 03:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Nichole, after reading such a beautifully written essay, I&#039;m glad to hear the medical news wasn&#039;t bad, and happy I&#039;m now aware of you. I&#039;m looking up your books now...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nichole, after reading such a beautifully written essay, I&#8217;m glad to hear the medical news wasn&#8217;t bad, and happy I&#8217;m now aware of you. I&#8217;m looking up your books now&#8230;</p>
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		By: Nichole Bernier		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nichole Bernier]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Aug 2013 17:14:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4319&quot;&gt;Sarah Laurence&lt;/a&gt;.

The bushes here in MA seem to all be the high variety....mostly taller than I am, though that&#039;s not saying much. I&#039;ve never experienced the sweet little low Maine variety, though I&#039;d love to. I grew up on Blueberries For Sal, after all!

Thanks for the kind words, and yes, I love my library. Sitting there again now.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2013/08/how-we-spend-our-days-nichole-bernier/#comment-4319">Sarah Laurence</a>.</p>
<p>The bushes here in MA seem to all be the high variety&#8230;.mostly taller than I am, though that&#8217;s not saying much. I&#8217;ve never experienced the sweet little low Maine variety, though I&#8217;d love to. I grew up on Blueberries For Sal, after all!</p>
<p>Thanks for the kind words, and yes, I love my library. Sitting there again now.</p>
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		By: Sarah Laurence		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarah Laurence]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Aug 2013 15:06:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Nichole, what a gorgeous library! You must be picking high bush as we have to squat to pick the low bush blueberries that grow wild in Maine. I&#039;m sorry about your loss - I too had a late miscarriage when it was supposed to be past the risk period. I hope your medical problem resolves with a happier ending this time.

Cynthia, thanks for hosting and the intro to a writer new to me.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nichole, what a gorgeous library! You must be picking high bush as we have to squat to pick the low bush blueberries that grow wild in Maine. I&#8217;m sorry about your loss &#8211; I too had a late miscarriage when it was supposed to be past the risk period. I hope your medical problem resolves with a happier ending this time.</p>
<p>Cynthia, thanks for hosting and the intro to a writer new to me.</p>
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