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		By: Cynthia Newberry Martin		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cynthia Newberry Martin]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-9060&quot;&gt;Susan Shackelford&lt;/a&gt;.

Susan, thanks for leaving a note to let me know you were here. I so appreciate your words now reading my words 12 years ago. As I write you back, I&#039;m sitting in Provincetown, MA, watching the sun set, my book resting in my lap. Stay well.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-9060">Susan Shackelford</a>.</p>
<p>Susan, thanks for leaving a note to let me know you were here. I so appreciate your words now reading my words 12 years ago. As I write you back, I&#8217;m sitting in Provincetown, MA, watching the sun set, my book resting in my lap. Stay well.</p>
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		By: Susan Shackelford		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Susan Shackelford]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2021 13:24:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[6:45 AM Madison,WI. Thank you. I was writing with Pat Schneider...well using her writing her exercises. I went to find more background on the author and found you and this beautiful post. Wherever you are right now, 12years later, you words remain fresh and meaningful. I intend to read  BASS as a tutorial for my writing and loved your practice of reading after dinner. I think I’ll suggest it to my husband  during this Covid pandemic. Blessings to you and your family. Susan]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>6:45 AM Madison,WI. Thank you. I was writing with Pat Schneider&#8230;well using her writing her exercises. I went to find more background on the author and found you and this beautiful post. Wherever you are right now, 12years later, you words remain fresh and meaningful. I intend to read  BASS as a tutorial for my writing and loved your practice of reading after dinner. I think I’ll suggest it to my husband  during this Covid pandemic. Blessings to you and your family. Susan</p>
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		By: cynthia		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[cynthia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 22:39:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-1283&quot;&gt;Mireille Noël&lt;/a&gt;.

Same to you, Mireille!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-1283">Mireille Noël</a>.</p>
<p>Same to you, Mireille!</p>
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		By: cynthia		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[cynthia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 22:38:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-1279&quot;&gt;Sarah Laurence&lt;/a&gt;.

Sarah, on the sappiness issue, I went back and forth. From being shocked that this was the same Katrina Kenison who trolled the literary journals for the absolute best stories of the year from which that year&#039;s editor would choose the best of the best to being so touched that I could hardly see the pictures flashing by.

I also kept waiting for something horrible to be disclosed. Isn&#039;t it revealing that an ode to the ordinary would suggest that something bad had happened?

I almost mentioned her son&#039;s piano playing in the post then decided that was a nice reveal at the end.

And I agree. Kenison does read well.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-1279">Sarah Laurence</a>.</p>
<p>Sarah, on the sappiness issue, I went back and forth. From being shocked that this was the same Katrina Kenison who trolled the literary journals for the absolute best stories of the year from which that year&#8217;s editor would choose the best of the best to being so touched that I could hardly see the pictures flashing by.</p>
<p>I also kept waiting for something horrible to be disclosed. Isn&#8217;t it revealing that an ode to the ordinary would suggest that something bad had happened?</p>
<p>I almost mentioned her son&#8217;s piano playing in the post then decided that was a nice reveal at the end.</p>
<p>And I agree. Kenison does read well.</p>
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		By: Mireille Noël		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mireille Noël]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 19:45:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Even if you make me cry with this lovely video...

Merry Christmas!

Lot of great and ordinary reading days for you and your family.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even if you make me cry with this lovely video&#8230;</p>
<p>Merry Christmas!</p>
<p>Lot of great and ordinary reading days for you and your family.</p>
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		By: cynthia		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[cynthia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 18:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-1278&quot;&gt;Linda&lt;/a&gt;.

Linda, what drew me in were those first lines:

&quot;You think the life you have right now is the only one there is, the one that&#039;s going to last forever...&quot; 

And I did/do. I remember back to not being able to see &lt;em&gt;over&lt;/em&gt; having to always go outside with the kids. How I could have thought that would last forever I don&#039;t know. I&#039;m probably doing the same thing right now. The trick, I guess, is to be in the moment and yet see beyond it, see it as a moment.

I didn&#039;t know you have four sons; I have three : )]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-1278">Linda</a>.</p>
<p>Linda, what drew me in were those first lines:</p>
<p>&#8220;You think the life you have right now is the only one there is, the one that&#8217;s going to last forever&#8230;&#8221; </p>
<p>And I did/do. I remember back to not being able to see <em>over</em> having to always go outside with the kids. How I could have thought that would last forever I don&#8217;t know. I&#8217;m probably doing the same thing right now. The trick, I guess, is to be in the moment and yet see beyond it, see it as a moment.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t know you have four sons; I have three : )</p>
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		By: cynthia		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[cynthia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:37:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-1277&quot;&gt;peggy&lt;/a&gt;.

Peggy, it is close to home, isn&#039;t it?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-1277">peggy</a>.</p>
<p>Peggy, it is close to home, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
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		By: cynthia		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[cynthia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:15:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-1276&quot;&gt;hopeseguin&lt;/a&gt;.

Hope, especially at this time of year, I needed that reminder about slowing down to enjoy the ordinary moments.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/12/the-ordinary-day/#comment-1276">hopeseguin</a>.</p>
<p>Hope, especially at this time of year, I needed that reminder about slowing down to enjoy the ordinary moments.</p>
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		By: Sarah Laurence		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarah Laurence]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 12:40:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[At first I found it sappy, especially with the sentimental music, but then I was sucked into it so completely that I felt teary when we learned that it was her son playing the piano.  I kept waiting for something horrible to happen before I realized the story was about the good things and holding onto what we have.  My favorite part was about the missing photos, those most special but ordinary moments that aren&#039;t photographed.  

Running around like crazy catering to the needs and a tween and teen, it was helpful to be told to cherish the moments.  My favorite years weren&#039;t the baby/toddler ones.  I seem to enjoy my children more with each coming year (if not all the driving!)  

Kenison reads very well.  Thanks for sharing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At first I found it sappy, especially with the sentimental music, but then I was sucked into it so completely that I felt teary when we learned that it was her son playing the piano.  I kept waiting for something horrible to happen before I realized the story was about the good things and holding onto what we have.  My favorite part was about the missing photos, those most special but ordinary moments that aren&#8217;t photographed.  </p>
<p>Running around like crazy catering to the needs and a tween and teen, it was helpful to be told to cherish the moments.  My favorite years weren&#8217;t the baby/toddler ones.  I seem to enjoy my children more with each coming year (if not all the driving!)  </p>
<p>Kenison reads very well.  Thanks for sharing.</p>
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		By: Linda		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Linda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 17:36:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh, what a beautiful piece! As the mother of four grown sons, I related on every point. And, yes, those perfectly ordinary days passed by all too quickly.

Thank you for sharing this, Cynthia.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, what a beautiful piece! As the mother of four grown sons, I related on every point. And, yes, those perfectly ordinary days passed by all too quickly.</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing this, Cynthia.</p>
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