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		By: cynthia		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2010 15:45:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/08/the-space-for-me/#comment-814&quot;&gt;eliza&lt;/a&gt;.

Eliza, thanks for leaving a comment and for the book suggestion. I&#039;ll check it out.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2009/08/the-space-for-me/#comment-814">eliza</a>.</p>
<p>Eliza, thanks for leaving a comment and for the book suggestion. I&#8217;ll check it out.</p>
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		By: eliza		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2010 03:32:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You really don&#039;t need all that stuff. All that clutter is making you stressed enough to blog about it. I&#039;m a professional de-clutterer, and stuff is psychologically dangerous in high quantities. Check out &quot;clutter busting&quot; by brookes palmer. great book, changed my life.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You really don&#8217;t need all that stuff. All that clutter is making you stressed enough to blog about it. I&#8217;m a professional de-clutterer, and stuff is psychologically dangerous in high quantities. Check out &#8220;clutter busting&#8221; by brookes palmer. great book, changed my life.</p>
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		By: cynthia		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 15:03:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Mireille-Thanks for reading the post &lt;em&gt;and&lt;/em&gt; the comments and for leaving a comment. I &lt;em&gt;love&lt;/em&gt; your analogy of my writing space to a garden where words grow and travel from page to page. Just beautiful. I hope you&#039;ll be back!

Teresa-I have to keep my clutter organized or it makes me crazy. So when the piles start to overlap or I have to start using the floor for piles, I de-clutter, which I actually enjoy. I have to feel like the master of the piles!  And it is such fun to find things I&#039;ve forgotten about. Thanks for adding to the conversation.

Tricia-The main character in &lt;em&gt;The Painting Story&lt;/em&gt; also loved to make piles and she read an article that said the piles we make represent the contents of our brain! So pile, pile, pile to unclutter your brain.

Ohhhh, that&#039;s where all the papers come from.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mireille-Thanks for reading the post <em>and</em> the comments and for leaving a comment. I <em>love</em> your analogy of my writing space to a garden where words grow and travel from page to page. Just beautiful. I hope you&#8217;ll be back!</p>
<p>Teresa-I have to keep my clutter organized or it makes me crazy. So when the piles start to overlap or I have to start using the floor for piles, I de-clutter, which I actually enjoy. I have to feel like the master of the piles!  And it is such fun to find things I&#8217;ve forgotten about. Thanks for adding to the conversation.</p>
<p>Tricia-The main character in <em>The Painting Story</em> also loved to make piles and she read an article that said the piles we make represent the contents of our brain! So pile, pile, pile to unclutter your brain.</p>
<p>Ohhhh, that&#8217;s where all the papers come from.</p>
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		By: Tricia		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 16:09:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I live inside a cluttered brain. My thoughts wander faster than Amelda Marcos changes her shoes. I write lists and do everything not on it. I&#039;m so scattered, I feel like bird seed in the wind--who knows where I&#039;ll seed myself for the day. For this, I must, must, must have a clear space. I must strike a balance somewhere and it seems de-cluttering is the only thing I can control. 

I never was a shopper. Materialism was never an issue with me. But paper piles. Where do they come from? My desk is also in the guest room so I frequently clean the room to prepare arrivals. However, if I leave two pieces of paper out, they breed to millions the next day. I can&#039;t keep up.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I live inside a cluttered brain. My thoughts wander faster than Amelda Marcos changes her shoes. I write lists and do everything not on it. I&#8217;m so scattered, I feel like bird seed in the wind&#8211;who knows where I&#8217;ll seed myself for the day. For this, I must, must, must have a clear space. I must strike a balance somewhere and it seems de-cluttering is the only thing I can control. </p>
<p>I never was a shopper. Materialism was never an issue with me. But paper piles. Where do they come from? My desk is also in the guest room so I frequently clean the room to prepare arrivals. However, if I leave two pieces of paper out, they breed to millions the next day. I can&#8217;t keep up.</p>
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		By: Teresa		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 06:31:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks for this great post, Cynthia. It actually made me start to clean up my clutter (or, rather, organize my clutter). I am sitting here surrounded by piles of drafts. I found a slew of them from 2007 I had forgotten, along with the clippings, notes, and photos that inspired me to write them. Also found my complete New Yorker DVD set buried under a pile of Zoetrope All-Storys. If I can make my clutter look as neat as yours, I will feel accomplished.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for this great post, Cynthia. It actually made me start to clean up my clutter (or, rather, organize my clutter). I am sitting here surrounded by piles of drafts. I found a slew of them from 2007 I had forgotten, along with the clippings, notes, and photos that inspired me to write them. Also found my complete New Yorker DVD set buried under a pile of Zoetrope All-Storys. If I can make my clutter look as neat as yours, I will feel accomplished.</p>
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		By: Mireille Noël		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 03:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&quot;There’s just so much of it.&quot;

If this is how you feel about your writing place, well, may be it&#039;s because you need more space to work... and put  some new...

&quot;Notebooks, letters, pictures.&quot;

I just love the way you express your feelings about this private and secret place of your. It&#039;s look and sound like a garden where words keep growing day after day and travel from page to page.

I love your clutters.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;There’s just so much of it.&#8221;</p>
<p>If this is how you feel about your writing place, well, may be it&#8217;s because you need more space to work&#8230; and put  some new&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;Notebooks, letters, pictures.&#8221;</p>
<p>I just love the way you express your feelings about this private and secret place of your. It&#8217;s look and sound like a garden where words keep growing day after day and travel from page to page.</p>
<p>I love your clutters.</p>
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		By: cynthia		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 13:49:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Linda and Dory, it&#039;s interesting that you find clutter in your writing spaces affects your writing. I&#039;m wondering if it affects mine. Tomorrow I might try taking everything off my desk and just putting it on the floor where I can&#039;t see it to see if that changes anything.

Emily, you bring up the other side of this issue, the fact that sometimes clutter can promote creativity. Really, seeing papers everywhere and books open on top of the printer and on the floor does help to bring out my creative or &quot;wild&quot; side, which I&#039;m just now realizing as I type this. The &quot;mess&quot; somehow overpowers my logical self. Cool.

Owlandsparrow and waggledance, the two &quot;picture names,&quot; both of you seem to be able to really get into the fun of de-cluttering!

Lindsay, I think one of the reasons I&#039;m drawn to the small houses in the blog header is for exactly the reason you mention you enjoy living in your small house--there&#039;s simply not room for a lot of possessions.

Zoe, you bring up a side of this issue I thought about but didn&#039;t get into--saving things for their sentimental value. Notebooks, letters, pictures...how do we keep that aspect of &quot;things&quot; in check? Thanks for your great post on the subject.

Jennifer, It &lt;em&gt;is&lt;/em&gt; interesting how good empty space feels. It&#039;s difficult to understand it, but it&#039;s true. Why do we rush to hang pictures? Is it more of a need to find a place for things? And my clutter &lt;em&gt;is&lt;/em&gt; very organized. It&#039;s not messy. There&#039;s just so much of it.

Thanks for all the great comments. Here&#039;s a little snippet from Marilynne Robinson&#039;s &lt;em&gt;Housekeeping&lt;/em&gt; that I thought of after I had written this post:

&lt;blockquote&gt;&quot;The parlor was full of the newspapers and magazines Sylvie brought home. They were stacked pretty neatly...Nevertheless, they took up the end of the room where the fireplace had been. Then there were the cans stacked along the wall opposite the couch. Like the newspapers, they were stacked to the ceiling. Nevertheless, they took up considerable floor space....Sylvie only kept them, I think, because she considered accumulation to be the essence of housekeeping, and because she considered the hoarding of worthless things to be proof of a particularly scrupulous thrift.&quot;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Linda and Dory, it&#8217;s interesting that you find clutter in your writing spaces affects your writing. I&#8217;m wondering if it affects mine. Tomorrow I might try taking everything off my desk and just putting it on the floor where I can&#8217;t see it to see if that changes anything.</p>
<p>Emily, you bring up the other side of this issue, the fact that sometimes clutter can promote creativity. Really, seeing papers everywhere and books open on top of the printer and on the floor does help to bring out my creative or &#8220;wild&#8221; side, which I&#8217;m just now realizing as I type this. The &#8220;mess&#8221; somehow overpowers my logical self. Cool.</p>
<p>Owlandsparrow and waggledance, the two &#8220;picture names,&#8221; both of you seem to be able to really get into the fun of de-cluttering!</p>
<p>Lindsay, I think one of the reasons I&#8217;m drawn to the small houses in the blog header is for exactly the reason you mention you enjoy living in your small house&#8211;there&#8217;s simply not room for a lot of possessions.</p>
<p>Zoe, you bring up a side of this issue I thought about but didn&#8217;t get into&#8211;saving things for their sentimental value. Notebooks, letters, pictures&#8230;how do we keep that aspect of &#8220;things&#8221; in check? Thanks for your great post on the subject.</p>
<p>Jennifer, It <em>is</em> interesting how good empty space feels. It&#8217;s difficult to understand it, but it&#8217;s true. Why do we rush to hang pictures? Is it more of a need to find a place for things? And my clutter <em>is</em> very organized. It&#8217;s not messy. There&#8217;s just so much of it.</p>
<p>Thanks for all the great comments. Here&#8217;s a little snippet from Marilynne Robinson&#8217;s <em>Housekeeping</em> that I thought of after I had written this post:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;The parlor was full of the newspapers and magazines Sylvie brought home. They were stacked pretty neatly&#8230;Nevertheless, they took up the end of the room where the fireplace had been. Then there were the cans stacked along the wall opposite the couch. Like the newspapers, they were stacked to the ceiling. Nevertheless, they took up considerable floor space&#8230;.Sylvie only kept them, I think, because she considered accumulation to be the essence of housekeeping, and because she considered the hoarding of worthless things to be proof of a particularly scrupulous thrift.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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		By: jenniferneri		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 01:15:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[By the way, Cynthia, your clutter looks terribly organized to me!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By the way, Cynthia, your clutter looks terribly organized to me!</p>
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		By: jenniferneri		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 01:15:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Since we moved I have not even hung anything on the walls and it is closing in on two years. All that empty space feels too good! 
My desk on the other hand hardly has space for me and my little laptop :)

Thanks for the fun photos!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since we moved I have not even hung anything on the walls and it is closing in on two years. All that empty space feels too good!<br />
My desk on the other hand hardly has space for me and my little laptop 🙂</p>
<p>Thanks for the fun photos!</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 21:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#039;s always a challenge for me to strike a balance between a house that&#039;s clean and un-cluttered enough to avoid overwhelming me, and at the same time giving myself permission to make a mess.  My mom always told me that it&#039;s impossible to create without making a mess, and I definitely find that to be true!  Even when I&#039;m just working on a proposal, the table where I work tends to be littered with calculators, swatches, books, charts, computers, diagrams, skeins of yarn...I suppose in an ideal world I would either have a separate room for all this or clean it up at the end of every day, but...yeah.  It&#039;s hard to strike the best balance for promoting creativity!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s always a challenge for me to strike a balance between a house that&#8217;s clean and un-cluttered enough to avoid overwhelming me, and at the same time giving myself permission to make a mess.  My mom always told me that it&#8217;s impossible to create without making a mess, and I definitely find that to be true!  Even when I&#8217;m just working on a proposal, the table where I work tends to be littered with calculators, swatches, books, charts, computers, diagrams, skeins of yarn&#8230;I suppose in an ideal world I would either have a separate room for all this or clean it up at the end of every day, but&#8230;yeah.  It&#8217;s hard to strike the best balance for promoting creativity!</p>
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